I don’t talk much,
Not about the past anymore,
Not about how X hurt me, or that I went through Y,
I don’t speak of all the pain, struggle, the number of times I have wanted to end my life, end it all for good,
But that doesn’t mean I’m over it,
That doesn’t mean I don’t feel,
That doesn’t mean I don’t know your pain,
That doesn’t mean anything.
Stop your mind from jumping to conclusions,
Stop your ego from judging me.
My story is mine, I will share it if I need to,
And I’d only need to, to help lighten your load.
I don’t need it to hold grudges or blame,
To whine or stay stuck in a moment long gone.
I don’t need to prove the tons of things I’ve gone through,
I don’t need your sympathy,
I won’t explain myself for your egos satisfaction.
Free me from your expectations,
Because I won’t, I absolutely won’t live up to them.
– Ramona Arena, 3rd September, 2018.
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Dear Intimacy…
Dear Intimacy,
I heard your name in casual conversation,
So I thought I’d take that step of initiation,
Cuz it’s been a while since we met.
In fact, if I may be honest,
I’ve forgotten what you look like.
Or is it what you feel like?
Do you remember me?
Can you tell me what the colour of my hair was?
Perhaps my favourite song?
I wonder how time shot past
Yet stood deadly still for so long!
I didn’t realise how the absence of you
Had filled up the emptiness,
With the guise of being independent & strong.
Catching your eye,
Holding onto your hand for a few seconds longer whilst being introduced.
A heavy smile laden with a million questions,
On a head that’s light as helium,
Forcing all logic to be irrelevant,
Unnecessary even to ones well being.
Defence mechanisms at an all time low
As oxytocin whips the pulse to race at a deadly pace.
We should meet again soon.
I’d like that very much.
Everything can be said and healed,
When comprehension rests on touch.
-Ramona Arena 2014.
Shut Up Already!
They said the early bird catches the worm.
But who are they?
And why should their truth be my life story?
Words are all we have had to express ourselves.
And despite a million synonyms and such,
We are trapped and bound by how limiting they are.
I’ve come to realize,
Through life as I philosophize.
There is but one reality.
So pure and so true,
Nothing need be named.
Words are only for the deaf
As colors are for the blind.
‘Feeling’ is the gospel truth
Through music, dance & frame.
Touch, glances, moments, chances,
Convey what you can never say.
To feel so deep,
You didn’t see yourself bleeding,
To feel so much,
You won’t care about healing.
This minute, this second,
This smile, this tear
I never want to hear about it,
Just let me feel it’s real.
©RAMONAARENA2014
#justsaying
I said it.
Plain and simple, I did.
You didn’t actually accept that I know myself.
That I know what I want,
I know what I need,
What it takes to make me happy.
So you pursued and chased.
Insisting, you’re on the same page.
Your relentless behaviour
Had me succumb to belief.
Now I’m left standing in a lake of my salt,
While you’re out there laughing.
You’re living the dream,
When did the ‘our’ get a ‘y’ before it?
I don’t like being that low down on your list.
I don’t like it at all.
-Ramona Arena.
Midnight Ramblings.
Sleepless in Ludhiana
With you on my mind.
I ought to be dreaming,
But my mind can’t leave you behind.
Won’t you allow me,
Just a bit of peaceful rest?
Must forced non-chalance
Be constantly put to the test?
How do I get through
All I want to say?
When you sit there locked up
In a soundproof room all day.
I need to stop
I must indulge slumber.
But if you’d like to get to know me,
You already have my number.
– RAMONA ARENA 2014.
Swallow.
Oh but to love you is a balm that soothes my weary old spirit,
Nevermind how exasperating it maybe!
To see new life and oppotunity,
To trust unpredictability.
To know you will lay with me,
When the sun shuts her sleepy eyes,
Leaving us in the capable hands of the moon,
Under it’s cool glittery blanket of the dark, star studded night.
Tracing the outline of your face with tender fingertips,
Leaving your jaw for your smile that has now claimed its curve on your lips.
Silence so heavy, filled with emotions so deep,
Thrust upon our thoughts like a monsoon waterfall.
Can there be any substitute
For the reassurance of your breath on my cheek?
Anything that comes close to this kind of peaceful surrender?
Oh how you alone have the power to exhaust me to my wits end, frustrate me beyond the boundaries of the earth…
But it’s all a part of the deal I guess.
For you are also the only one, that has access to hold me and love me.
Will you please just swallow me whole?
– RAMONA ARENA, 2014